I will never friend anyone back that has not
- bothered to leave a comment on one of my public entries first,
- got any entries at all on their journal let alone public ones.
I may even ban_set them in the LJ Admin Console to stop them commenting on my public entries - I refuse to open myself up to being stalked on LJ.
So, if you want to explain why you are adding me as an LJ 'friend' and why I should not only add you back but also not ban_set you, please do so in a comment somewhere on one of my public entries here or email me at my LJ username* [at] livejournal [dot] com (natalief).