December 2nd, 2009

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Spotted on shadesong:

I firmly believe in small gestures: pay for their coffee, hold the door for strangers, over tip, smile or try to be kind even when you don't feel like it, pay compliments, chase the kid's runaway ball down the sidewalk and throw it back to him, try to be larger than you are-- particularly when it's difficult. People do notice, people appreciate. I appreciate it when it’s done to (for) me. Small gestures can be an effort, or actually go against our grain ("I'm not a big one for paying compliments..."), but the irony is that almost every time you make them, you feel better about yourself. For a moment life suddenly feels lighter, a bit more Gene Kelly dancing in the rain.
--Jonathan Carroll


Now, all I need to do is get rid of this cold, stop my sinuses trying to kill me with pain and stop this nosebleed…
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My thoughts on the Twilight franchise

These are my OPINIONS, gathered together from my Twitter Stream with some footnotes added (but not otherwise edited) to make a more coherent blog post from my microbloggings:

LauraB1 on seeing Twilight: "Buffy would LAUGH at Edward Cullen XD" http://j.mp/6l99FG This! I've not seen or read it and won't try hard to.

"YouTube - Buffy vs Edward: Twilight Remixed -- [original version]" http://j.mp/6v1m99 Oh yes! Buffy was way better than this sparkly stuff! 1

"Twilight | Cracked.com" http://j.mp/8NFlRR And there's more! Spotted here: http://rosefox8.livejournal.com/1275421.html

With all that "Buffy is better than Twilight" I am sure to lose a few Twitter followers and LjFriends. That will be a pity but I will live.

"think critically before you wish for someone else's idea of what's romantic" http://j.mp/4Ukm60 The Twilight books are bad role models. 2

Honestly, I worry about the teenage girls of women who love these books and who read them with said girls. 3

Part of me thinks I should read them to better criticise but I have better things to read and to do with my time than cause myself pain!

Another part of me is unhappy criticising an author (or group of ghost mormon authors?) that is/are making money out of a book franchise.

I worry for a whole generation of teenage girls. Way to teach girls that it is OK to be in an abusive relationship. Been there, never again.

If only my autobiography, if I ever finish and publish, would sell as well and influence as many young girls. Sadly, pigs might fly. :(

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Edited to fix HTML and to add a comment that I left on the post that I linked to with the "think critically" tagline:


I think there is enough out there to counter balance one fictitious book series' unintentional glorification of abusive relationships. Come on, the guy turns into a wolf and mauls his girlfriend? And people think that girls are going say "well it worked out for the chick in my book so I have to tough it out"? Let's give the gals out there a bit more credit and assume that they will know thousands of other works out there might have a better point that it's not ok to be hit or belittled by your boyfriend.


Then again, as a child of parents in an abusive relationship that went on to have a number of abusive relationships of my own before I realised that that was not how it had to be and was just what I had always seen and assumed to be true, there will be girls out these that do not have good role models in their lives for whom these books reinforce the bad experiences and role models in their own lives. It is these girls, of whom I was one, that I personally feel worried and concerned for.

You do what you have seen and been taught. You only think to do anything different if you see or learn something different.



1 Also, Buffy is/was a much better role model for teenage girls than the Twilight Bella IMO!

2 P.S. The comments on this post are a great read as well. Some from people that disagree with the OP (and me), some about how Disney is often as dysfunctional and even one from a Mormon whose teen girl hated the books and movie. Fascination and interesting.

3 …or who let them read the books unsupervised which is so much worse IMO!
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