January 1st, 2008


Sticky post: My journal, my boundaries!

This livejournal is my journal and so has boundaries. All of us need those to survive.

I used to have a really complex chunk of text here about agreements and truces. That did not work.

Now I will just start by saying that this is my journal, for me to write what I want to write. Within the law, of course.

I am, from now on, locking natf right down.

My livejournal defined:
  • I see this space as 'a paper journal with a keyboard'. I find a keyboard easier to use than a pen.

  • I do not post here because I want help. I post to share my life with people who care about and/or are interested in my life. Period.

  • This livejournal is also a way that I can write how I am *once* rather than telling N people how I am N times (and forgetting who I have remembered to tell what). That is why why I don't just make all of my posts private. Yes, I have considered it.

natf is no longer merely 'friends'-only.Rather than merely deleting the journal and/or making it all private, it is now *way* beyond 'friends'-only.
  • Some posts may be public - some of which will have comments disabled.

  • Some posts will only be visible to my LJ 'friends' and some to only a subset of those 'friends' - those that really *are* and 'get' these boundaries.

My commitments are:
  • I will learn to set the privacy options for my posts to all of my livejournals more appropriately.

  • When I want help I will ask for help. I will try to remember to word questions that I view as rhetorical so that they are not mis-interpretable as questions or requests for help.

As my Grandpa used to say (at least, I think it was he):
"If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all!"
That is the core moral of the old Truce and how I would like to operate this livejournal from now on.

All I ask of you:
Please, if you cannot be caring or supportive in a comment and/or don't just want to say "*hugs*", "LY. MI." or something similar, then:
  • Either say "I have read this and am here if you need me,"

  • Or something similar,

  • Or say nothing at all.

I no longer want to have to fight against my logic/emotions/ghosts, my friends and other people that I respect as I try to defend my opinions, feelings and beliefs - of which we are all entitled to our own.

There is no such thing as a WRONG opinion, belief, feeling or situation. Merely a DIFFERENT one.

Like me or lump me. Please don't try to change me.

PLEASE: What is said in my livejournal stays in my livejournal.

N.B. PLEASE sign your name to anonymous comments so that I know who is leaving comments! ;-p

Also, bear in mind that I screen anonymous comments and those from non-'friend' LJ accounts.

  • Current Mood
    awake awake
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[loudtwitter] My Twitter Tweets from Yesterday

08:53 Woken and vaguely upright. NTS: Make sure that the wireless (bluetooth) apple keyboard is switched on before typing a whole tweet! :) #

12:39 Thinking of catching a train to Crawley and vititing yarn shops. Maybe even walk to HobbyCraft at County Oak Retail Park! #

13:02 On train phone battery low... #

13:41 In Crawley #

17:37 Home! Phew! #

Automatically shipped from my twitter to natf by LoudTwitter.


I was thinking of doing something like this anyway. I enjoyed November so much that I was going to do 'blog every day in 2008' myself, and then I spotted on someone else's blog, that there was a ning community for this!

My profile at blog365.

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Fancy it, anyone?

Anyway - I am not feeling too great and so I think that I should go to bed. It was a very busy day, what with trains, walking, HobbyCraft, yarn, needles and hooks...

ETA: Cool! I like similar numbers; "Welcome, Natalie Ford! You are member #635 of Blog 365."

Blog365 weirdness

GRRRRRR I can't use HTML on ning?! Oh yeah. I remember. :(
Thank The FSM (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flying_Spaghetti_Monster) for other blogging sites like LiveJournal (http://www.livejournal.com/ ) that *do* allow HTML! Ugh - this is so inelegant!

So, let's try this post again:-

I wonder why my LJ/blog's RSS feed ( http://natalief.livejournal.com/data/rss ) does not propogate into the Blog356 RSS MegaFeed ( http://blog365.kamenlee.com/ ) and my LJ/blog ( http://natalief.livejournal.com/ ) does not appear in the blogroll on that page (the 'Authors' list on the right), either. I do have an RSS feed set up on blog365.ning for my LJ/blog and so I am confused/stumped...

Original post text follows (YUCK!):-

I wonder why my LJ/blog's RSS feed does not propogate into the Blog356 RSS MegaFeed and my LJ/blog does not appear in the blogroll on that page (the 'Authors' list on the right), either. I do have an RSS feed set up here for my LJ/blog and so I am confused/stumped...

(copied from a 'blog' post over there)