This and the resultant comment threads (and flame wars) have made me think long and hard about my "first time" as well as some other "times" prior to that that were runs to "fewer bases". I will keep thinking about this and may make a post in the future.
ETA: Adding some more links/thoughts:
- I read a post recently on LJ that linked elsewhere about coming out as having had an abortion being important to other women that have. Sadly I lost that link.