As for the LJFriends that are getting PMs from someone complaining that I un-friended them and/or banned them;
a) please don't bother telling me.
b) I suggest that you do the same (i.e. un-friend/ban them).
c) if they are not on your LJFriends and you are accepting PMs from them, I suggest you only accept PMs from LJFriends but YMMV, I guess.
I may end up postdating this entry in the future so that it always appears at the top.
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